well i am glad to hear the good news threw you and i hope that was at this point the best out come for ya ....as far as that goes your on your way..you seem to be a very strong and independent women that can stay strong and get threw it alll...from there all i can offer you is my prayers and support and any knowledge that may be of some hlep to you good luck sweety...if it is tooo personal i undertsnad but do you have dieabites?